Friday, August 27, 2010

What’s Right is What’s Right for you!

We live in a world where the lines between good versus evil, right versus wrong; moral versus immoral, ethical versus unethical is getting more and more blurred. You can get away from facing the consequence of your actions, by simply, rationalizing your wrongs and make it right. Worse, the society accepts such rationalization and turns the other way. In fact, if you do something wrong, your first reaction will be to find the “right” reasons as to why you did it and trust me, there’s no shortage of that :-(.

It’s because what’s right is what’s “right” for you. There’s no absolute truth in this world, except the truth that there’s Earth and there’s sun and that we are human beings who live on this earth. Even God is not an absolute truth.

It’s always amazed me how our culture can support such behavior and to my surprise, I found that people have already coined a phrase for this behavior!!!

It’s called Relativism and it can apply to Moral, Social and cultural aspects. Of course, I am not talking about Einstein’s theory of relativity. So, don’t run away:-). I am just going to provide my thoughts on Moral relativism.

So, what is relativism? Relativism is the idea that all points of view are equally valid and that there is no absolute truth. It states that whatever an individual determines is truth is true for that individual even though the same exact situation might be untrue to another. In other words, there’s no real right or wrong. If you extend this concept, all religions are right or all of them wrong. So, technically, having a religion makes no sense since there’s no absolute truth in anything that your religion teaches and all your values depend on the social group that influences your life.

Relativism is a very popular concept in our culture and only continues to grow. Now, why wouldn’t it be? Think about it, if there really is no real right and wrong, you don’t have to be accountable for your actions. This means, anything is acceptable in the right circumstances and justifiable: cheating, lying, infidelity, adultery, robbery, assault, rape and even murder.

Moral relativism, in particular, contiunes to grow exponentially. Just look around you and you will see people coming up with excuses for what you would have considered unethical a few decades back and you would see their social group encouraging such behavior. Now, I don’t know which is worse: someone doing something wrong and calling it right or someone patronizing the actions of that someone who did something wrong.

Now, don’t get me wrong. The social group that encourages such things have a very good reason to be indifferent to the wrong actions of one of their own and that is, they don’t want to judge. So, their standard question is, “Who am I to judge”?

Here’s a rhetorical question: if that’s the case, we need to change our legal system which is based on a jury system, where people “judge” and just let people decide for themselves if what they did was right or wrong. When it’s not OK to take a moral stance, when, your friend or family does something wrong like lying, cheating, being dishonest etc…, it’s not OK to take a stance when someone commit a crime in the eyes of law like murder, rape, robbery etc... Moral law, legal law; what difference does it make, when there’s no right or wrong?

Moral relativism allow our culture to escape from our moral responsibilities and draw us into this vicious circle of life filled with iniquitous practices. It's time to start listening to your conscience and become accountable for your actions! The world is a much better place when there’s a clear line between right and wrong, good and bad, moral and immoral.

Friday, August 20, 2010

Imagine.... Lyrics of the famous song by John Lennon

I was listening to the song "Imagine" by John Lennon and the lyrics really moved me. I was thinking how powerful and meaningful the words are in the light of the current world events.

Lyrics for the song "Imagine"

Imagine there's no Heaven
It's easy if you try
No hell below us
Above us only sky
Imagine all the people
Living for today 

Imagine there's no countries
It isn't hard to do
Nothing to kill or die for
And no religion too
Imagine all the people
Living life in peace


You may say that I'm a dreamer
But I'm not the only one
I hope someday you'll join us
And the world will be as one 

Imagine no possessions
I wonder if you can
No need for greed or hunger
A brotherhood of man
Imagine all the people
Sharing all the world


You may say that I'm a dreamer
But I'm not the only one
I hope someday you'll join us
And the world will live as one

Friday, August 6, 2010

My take on Ravanan and Endhiran Album

At last, I got an opportunity to watch Ravanan. There were so many reviews and so much analysis done on this movie, I thought I better watch it before I get hear another crazy analysis or a review dissecting this movie.


The movie was engaging throughout, but for some reason, I just couldn't get it. Mani Ratnam, one of the big and talented directors in Indian cinema left me wondering what the hell he was trying to say! The dialogues were so outdated that I felt like I was back in the 80s again. I don’t think the actors themselves understood what the movie was trying to convey. The movie was beautiful like its actress Aishwarya Rai, but had no life like the actress, who really did her best to emote and just couldn’t; Drawing analogy to Ramayana literally!!! Seriously!!? The less said about the background score, the better.

Some folks seem to be analyzing this movie so much that it will leave Mani wondering if he really did think of the things these folks seem to be thinking he did. God and Mani are the only two people who know what they were trying to convey and whatever that is, I am depressed that I wasted 2 hours of my time. I fast forwarded some songs to cut the viewing even shorter and even that didn't help :-(

Note: Here’s a funny parody on Ravanan. Enjoy!

http://kbalakumar.com/2010/07/09/another-epic-from-mani-ratnam/

As far as Endhiran’s music is concerned, I just have 2 questions:
Why Rahman (ARR)? Why?

Inception and Shutter Island

In the past few weeks, I have had a chance to watch two best movies of this year.


Christopher Nolan's Inception has been heavily written on, but still there's so much to say about this movie. I have always been a fan of Nolan from his Memento days and have watched all his movies. So, when Inception was released, it was no brainers that I would want to watch the movie in theatre. Watching Inception was a completely different experience. Watching the movie left me cold, as though I couldn’t swallow something, but then, I couldn’t get the movie out of my mind, which is really the point isn’t?. I just felt like knocking on Nolan's door and asking him exactly what his take on his movie was. I guess I can only dream on that :).


Then, I got a chance to watch Shutter Island, a movie by one of my all-time favorites, Martin Scorsese, based on the book by Dennis Lehane. I loved the book and I loved the movie more than the book. Let me assure you that this is rare. Very few movies surpass the imagination of a book and Shutter Island is one of them. I don't want to give away too much about the story, but this movie shows how powerful perceptions are. The trick is to watch some scenes in the movie twice and you will know what I mean. It was then I realized how close these two movies resembled in terms of plot and idea.


Only few directors have such power over audiences and what an achievement that is.


Gosh! I wish there were more movies like these so that I don't feel guilty about wasting 2-3 hours in front of a TV. Now, I cannot wait for Batman 3 and the wait is loooooooooooooooooooooong!


Note: I am interested in hearing others thoughts on Inception’s ending. So, bring it on!

Tuesday, June 29, 2010

Children....

I was reading a book called "Giant Steps" steps by Barry Neil Kaufman and I found the following quote from the book very inspiring

"Children are born from us. They are not owned by us. They are possessions. The fact that they are little doesn't mean they are less. They are free spirits for us to love and enjoy. For all of us, children can be a beautiful experience....doorways into our own humanity"

As I was reading this, I got a call that one of my friends had given birth to a beautiful little baby boy and I thought "What a timing!".....

"Connecting" with friends

After a hiatus, I am back to blogging now!



Last year has been a roller coaster ride for me and I am not exaggerating when I say that it’s been both an exhilarating and exhausting experience to have a baby and see him reach his first milestone of completing a year on this beautiful earth.


So, after a year, I thought, why not start blogging again??? But now, it seems like blogging is an outdated thing right now because of some many new forms of social networking. There are so many that I am unable to keep track of which is what. Due to the current trend, I joined Facebook and found myself perplexed by this new form (found that it was just new to me!!) of social networking that folks are getting addicted to. I can imagine why since you are spending most of your time telling folks what you do on a daily basis and vice versa. My not so cynical side tells me that people want to be genuinely engaged or connected in others’ lives in a way that they couldn’t do a few years back by crossing any geographical boundaries. As for my cynical side goes, I think I will hold on to my thoughts for a while....

 
Anyways, now, it looks like I need to twitter, yammer, blog, chat through different IMs and use emails to make friends. Oh!!! I wish we were back to the good old days when my friends and I just would meet up over coffee or tea and chat about all the silly things that made us happy. At this point, the only thing I am sure about is that my son will never experience what I did.


Bummer!!! :-( So much for technological advances…